As much as I love hugging and kissing my daughters, they probably wish I wouldn’t. After all, they are adults. AND, I love them so much and I am endlessly proud of them.
Why am I writing about this on an Empty Nester platform? Well, I’m sure some of you feel the same. Here’s my reasons for writing this today:
Our eldest daughter began a semester in Florence, Italy earlier this week. She had several long flights (from Oahu to Italy) and skillfully mastered them all. The only blip was her luggage reunited with her two days later. She has shared photos of new friends, Italian pasta, capuccino, the David. I see in her eyes and smile that she’s settled, comfortable, safe, and happy. That’s all I want.
Our youngest daughter lives and works about an hour from us. She experienced the snow/ice of this week: which meant no work, no driving, staying home alone. She found things to occupy her so the time squeaked by. She stayed warm and safe. She’s back at work today. That’s all I want.
I’m proud of the young, kick a$$ women they have become. They are seasoned travelers, problem solvers, and thoughtful friends. Letting go of the kids they once were is hard, but necessary. Loving who they are now is gratifying, and comforting.
So E & T:
Here’s a hug from me to you, to show I care, to see you through. Just hold yourself tight, to feel me near, and know that I am always here. 🤗
To celebrate my Empty Nesterness and our kids’ Flown & Grown status, I will have a kitchen dance party and cheers them both.
How do you celebrate your kids and their accomplishments???
Aloha🌺,
Denise
