Stay humble and kind, especially through difficult times

Marcus Aurelius

Roman emperor and great Stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius (April 26, 121–March 17, 180) had articulated this self-same idea nearly eighteen centuries earlier. Aurelius, quoted by William James, writes:
“It is a man’s duty to comfort himself and wait for the natural dissolution, and not to be vexed, but to find refreshment solely in these thoughts — first that nothing will happen to me which is not conformable to the nature of the universe; and secondly that I need do nothing contrary to the God and deity within me; for there is no man who can compel me to transgress. He is an abscess on the universe who withdraws and separates himself from the reason of our common nature, through being displeased with the things which happen. For the same nature produces these, and has produced thee too. And so accept everything which happens, even if it seem disagreeable, because it leads to this, the health of the universe.”

The time, when some celebrate and others mourn, is upon us. We must all stay humble, kind, compassionate and empathetic. Staying present to others is of paramount importance so we don’t lose ourselves in thoughts/actions. Self-care is also very important.

I’m reminded of this during these months of revelers and memorials. I celebrate my loved ones and honor those not currently with us. Staying present and creative to others’ needs will be my goal.

Aloha🌺,

Denise

 

 

 

 

 

 

An ingenious mind is never too old to learn.
~Mary Granville Delany